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Your cat’s behaviours explained

Ever wished your cat could talk? Sometimes it can be hard to understand why your kitty is behaving the way it is. Learn more about what’s normal and what can be signs something is wrong in our guide.

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What are considered normal cat behaviours?

These are all perfectly normal common cat behaviours that most cat owners will experience at some point. 

Meowing

If you’re constantly wondering ‘why is my cat always meowing’ then you’ll be pleased to know cats have evolved to meow almost exclusively for humans. It’s their way of saying, “hey, pay attention to me!” Cats meow when they want something from people, whether that’s attention or food. 

Purring

Cats most often purr when they’re feeling content, relaxed and calm. Often, you’ll hear them purring if they’re settled on your lap for a good stroke. Purring creates low-frequency vibrations that may help the body heal, so cats can also purr if they’re in pain but it’s likely you’ll be able to know the difference. 

Tail wagging

A  wagging tail on a cat can signal multiple emotions. If your cat’s tail is moving quickly from side to side, this usually means they’re angry, annoyed or irritated. Watch out for sudden claws and teeth and consider giving them some space. 

If your cat’s tail is twitching at the end, this is a sign they’re in hunting mode or feeling playful. Time to bring out the toys. 

Rubbing against legs

If your kitty is rubbing against your legs, consider this a friendly greeting – the human equivalent of a hug or a handshake. Your cat is reacquainting itself with you and asking for affection in return. 

Rubbing against you can also be a way for your cat to scent mark. They’re letting the other cats in the neighbourhood know who you belong to using pheromones released through glands on their face. 

Exposing tummy

If your cat is happy to expose the most vulnerable part of its body, this is a sign of trust. Many people mistake this for a sign that their cat is asking for a belly rub, but most cats don’t enjoy having their tummy stroked, and cat lovers may quickly learn to regret offering. Try stroking a cat on its head if it chooses to show its belly – you’re less likely to be met with claws. 

Bringing gifts

Cats are natural predators. They haven’t been domesticated for as long as dogs, so the instinct to hunt is still strong – even if they’re getting plenty of food at home. If your cat is bringing home mice, birds or other small animals, you might interpret this as them bringing you a gift. 

In reality, cats usually bring their prey home because it’s a place they feel safe. Just like how leopards usually carry their kills high into the trees away from other predators, cats might bring a mouse home to enjoy it in the safety of the house. 

If you want to put a stop to your cat’s predatory behaviour, consider keeping them indoors at dusk and dawn when most wildlife come out, or getting them a collar with a bell so that birds, mice and other creatures are warned when they’re nearby. 

Some cats might bring home random objects – whether that’s leaves or branches, food items or even your neighbour’s washing. Again, their reason for doing this is so they can explore the objects in a safe place. They probably find the objects interesting and want to inspect them further. Just make sure to take anything that might be dangerous off them. 

Licking

If your cat licks you, other family members or pets, this is a sign of affection. It might feel a little sandpapery, but rest assured your kitty is showing you it loves you. 

Kneading 

If your cat looks like it’s trying to make bread in your lap, you know you’ve got yourself a content kitty. Cats knead to show their love and contentment, but they might also do it to try and soothe themselves into a calm mood.

Cat behaviours to look out for

There are some cat behaviours that can be a cause for concern. If your kitty is displaying any of these, it might be time to visit a vet to find out if they’re poorly or injured. 

Scratching furniture

Cats have an innate instinct to scratch. In the wild it helps keep their claws sharp, but if they’re ruining your expensive furniture, it’s a behaviour you will want to nip in the bud. A designated scratching post can divert their attention elsewhere. 

Scratching may also be a sign of stress or frustration, so you might want to talk to a vet or animal behaviourist if your cat is a particularly bad scratcher. 

Hissing

Cats hiss to express discomfort, stress or fear. People often interpret hissing as an aggressive behaviour, but cats that hiss are usually doing it as a defensive gesture. A cat that hisses is usually the one who is being antagonised, so the best approach is to back off and give your cat some space. 

Crouching

Cats often crouch when they’re afraid. Perhaps there’s something or someone in the house the cat is scared of, and it’s crouching to try to make itself small and less of a target. 

Over grooming

Cats lick themselves to stay clean, and they’re usually very good at grooming their own bodies. As a result, cats rarely need bathing. But excessive licking could be a sign of stress or anxiety. Overgrooming can lead to bald patches, as cats’ barb-like tongues are rough and can cause their fur to break. 

Vomiting or diarrhoea 

Cats can get poorly just like humans, and they might display similar symptoms to us as well. If your cat is vomiting or has diarrhoea, the best thing to do is take it to the vet. There are a wide range of illnesses or issues that could be causing this, from a simple stomach bug to more serious diseases. Your vet will be able to examine your cat and find out what’s wrong. 

Drinking lots of water

Cats need plenty of fresh water every day, but if you notice your cat is drinking more water than usual, it could be cause for concern. Increased thirst can be a sign of kidney dysfunction, liver disease or diabetes. You should talk to a vet if you’re worried about your cat’s health.

What to do if you’re worried about your cat’s behaviour?

If you’re worried about your cat’s behaviour visit your vet, who will be able to advise on treatment. Sainsbury’s Bank Cat Insurance can help cover the cost of vet visits, treatments, medication and behavioural illnesses. Depending on your policy you can claim up to £10,000 for behavioural illnesses.

Frequently asked questions

What are anxious behaviours in cats?

Cats can display anxiety in various ways, but some of the most common include hiding, excessive vocalisation and destructive behaviour. If you’re worried your cat is displaying anxious behaviour, talk to your vet.

When to be concerned about cat behaviour?

If your cat is showing signs of aggression, stress or anxiety, it could mean they are in pain or suffering from a health condition. It’s a good idea to get them checked by a vet to find out what’s wrong.

How do I stop my cat from feeling stressed?

You can stop your cat from feeling stressed by giving them plenty of love and attention. But they also need their own space from time to time, and for their people to respect boundaries. If your cat doesn’t want to be cuddled or to play, leave them to relax instead. 

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